The "Let it out" Thread

[cf2062]

thanks, i lov u'r signiture

[someguy]

I'm sorry to hear that cf. I know how that feels, and it doesn't feel good. Just don't be afraid to cry or open up to people if you need to, ok?

[cf2062]

O.K. last night-this morn I was talking with my friends about it.

[1momomo124]

aww cf i'm sorry my grandpa died last year on presedent day i went to the wake but i got the flu on the funeral so didn't go. now i feel i never got to say good bye to him

[Crimsonthread]

Well, I've arrived in my hometown and got to see my grandmother. She's in pretty good spirits, but definitely not doing well. We moved her from a nursing home into a hospice house today. The nursing home and hospice staff have been so supportive and helpful--I'll be eternally grateful to them. It's hard to see her so weak and feeble... but she's at peace with everything, and is ready to "go home."

[Mistery]

aww cf i'm sorry my grandpa died last year on presedent day i went to the wake but i got the flu on the funeral so didn't go. now i feel i never got to say good bye to him

Momo, the funeral is one occasion to say goodbye in a sort of ritual, but if you feel you would like to do so, you can still do it "in private". Maybe you have the chance to visit his grave, and say goodbye, or you can also write him a goodbye letter, or put a photo of him on your desk and tell what you would like to say to him. There are more ways to do it than attending the funeral

Well, I've arrived in my hometown and got to see my grandmother. She's in pretty good spirits, but definitely not doing well. We moved her from a nursing home into a hospice house today. The nursing home and hospice staff have been so supportive and helpful--I'll be eternally grateful to them. It's hard to see her so weak and feeble... but she's at peace with everything, and is ready to "go home."

I'm glad to hear that the staff has been so supportive, and that she will be taken care of in the hospice by a helpful staff
I hope that she won't have to suffer, and can go whenever her body and soul is ready

[1momomo124]

thanks mistery i might write him a letter

[Crimsonthread]

@Mistery--Thanks for your kind words. Granny passed away last night.

[RBS]

Oh dear Crimson I am very sorry to hear that. My thoughts will be with you. I had a wonderful Granny too that I lost 10 years ago and if it is any consolation I quickly got over the grief and realized what wonderful gifts she gave me: Love of playing Scrabble and the joy of growing things to name a few. There is something special about a two generation spaced relationship I can't really explain. I do know that I never ever let go of her despite losing her physically. She is with me always.

[EscapeGirl]

@Crimson, momo, and CF....I'm so sorry to hear of all your losses. Spend time with your families and support eachother, and remember the good times you shared with those you lost. I can't say I relate, as I was never blessed with the opportunities of knowing any family outside of my mom and brothers (and now their wifes and kids. ). But I do know that it's very hard and painful to say goodbye to those you love. 's for you all. I'm so very sorry for the late reply, as well.

[ForeverJoseph]

holy crap i broke up with my girlfriend yesterday and she started crying and stuff. she already knew i was becuz my so called "frend" told her which didnt make it any better. i kno she thinks i did it becuz ppl talk bout her to ma alot but it was just becuz im not good at long distance relationships (she lives in a different city like right next to mine but goes to different skool and cant go anywhere by herself) but w are still frends but for some weird reason i feel like crap and still get that weird feeling when i talk to her. what do i do?

edit:well nvm since ppl seem to not wanna help me of course thanx 4 making me feel even worse peaple!!:

[Lilliputt]

I'm sorry you think we don't want to help, party. I believe many want to stand up for ya but it's very close to the holidays and most are simply occupied with other matters.
I really am the worst at this sort of thing but if you want to I will listen
I don't think you have any reason to feel bad about what happened from what I can tell by what you are writing and I agree that long distance relationships are difficult. However, if I understand you then you seem to feel guilty about how it ended. It's easy to blame one self for things that one doesn't really have much control over like what a person might think of you or what they might think of your reasons for for example ending a relationship. But I hope in time you will be able to sort it out together and hopefully your friendship will be stronger.
I dunno if this helps but I tried my best Hugs from da little old lady

[Crimsonthread]

Party, I'm also sorry that you're feeling ignored--I don't think that was anyone's intention. Ending relationships is never easy, regardless of the situation. I can understand not wanting to have one long-distance, too--I've never been any good at it. You might try writing a letter to her, explaining your reasons... sometimes it's a lot easier to get out all your feelings on paper. I hope it all works out for you both.

[someguy]

This forum does not make me as happy as it once did. I don't feel at home when I come on anymore. I will be the first to admit, I've gotten into fights with some members. I would like to apooligize too those, Crimson, Sandbox, Lilliput, for what I said and did. There are some people though, who I will hold grudges against forever.
But that is not why I type this. I type this because I no longer feel welcome here. It feels just like another generic forum that I go to daily. Not like the place that made me feel happy and welcome as it did a year ago. There are some people nice to me here, there are some people who shun me here. There are even a couple who have threatened me with violence and death. Through it all I tried to stay happy and be nice to who I could.
If I could take what I said to the ones I feel sorry towards, I would take it back and make sure it never happened. But that is not the case. They may hold grudges against me forever too. I am under much stress right now, and have contemplated suicide more than once in the past couple of weeks.
It is with this that I resign from gamershood for the time being. I may come on to finish up my story, or say hi to a couple people every now and again. But my fun times are over for a while. I am not happy here, and I don't want to hurt any more of you.
May your futures be bright and happy, and hopefully, you won't end up like me.

Edit: I would like to also say that I am sorry for you party. I didn't mean to make you feel ignored. I have been kinda busy. I am sorry to hear about your relationships with your GF and your friend. I just hope you can come to terms with your friend. I wish the best for you, and want you to know that your one of my favorites

[RBS]

I never forget the primary purpose of logging onto GH Forums is for the games and for the help I can get when I am stuck on a puzzle.

But do I get depressed about it if I can't work something out...nope.

Given enough time everything works out and all the young people in here with all this angst have plenty of time.

But lets remember this a gaming oasis first.

Someguy, I feel terrible for ya and just wish I could unburden some of what you are feeling.