Relationships

[Ratgirl111]

i need some help

i was a a ranch for a band trip and there was this girl i know lets call her bobo and i took her rabbit with a girl lets call her popo i was outside for 1 min and then came to give it back me and " popo" agreed that she was over reacting so i went to tell my other friends ( now ex friends ) lets call them Koko and soso so they made me go and say srry which they didnt her so soso started getting up in my face which i didint like so i told her stop and she got up in my face again so i went to say srry to bobo as she was clossing a closet door( oh ya she was in a closet) and they didnet hear me so i got frusterated and went into my bunk bed to calm down. and they other girls popo koko and soso staarted telling bobo what a horrible mean person i was. when i layed on my bed crying they said oh look blank( i am going to be called blank) is crying and walked away. i wrote them a note saying they needed to apoligize and they worte one back sayig i needed to apoligize to bobo i wrote a note explaining what happened and they wrote 1 back saying what a bad and horrible person i was later they wrote 1 saing no one in the world likes me so that made me cry what so i do oh and i made up with the girl who i took they bunny from so we ok now but i not about to let the other girls intill they apoligize

what do u guys think i should do dhould i apoligize to the other 2 girls or not and do u guys think this makes me a bad person

[Mistery]

Ugh, that's a weird and sad story

Hmmm, it's not easy to tell you what to do.
But from what you have described, this was a situation where this girl probably overreacted a bit (although probably it would have been better to ask her first if she agreed that you took her rabbit outside), and then everyone joined her without really knowing what happened, and then - feeling strong as a group - they started to stand against you until the situation escalated even more.

I'm glad to hear that you could sort it out with the girl with whom you initially had the issue.

I don't really see a reason why you should apologize to the others. You say that you've been friends - maybe you all could meet somewhere to have a drink, and then try to get over it.
It seems that everyone has been very emotional at the time when this issue happened, so maybe with some distance (I don't know how long it's been) you can talk about it, and agree that probably all of you should have behaved differently (you could have asked for permission to take the rabbit outside, your friends could have stayed a bit more calm). Perhaps you all are able to agree that your friendship is enough worth to keep it, and that one very emotional situation shouldn't destroy it.
Well, this is as I see it, maybe others have some other ideas about it. Good luck, I hope that you all can work it out soon

[Ratgirl111]

i can really talk 2 talk cuz they all really mad at me (exept soso we getting better friends) and they rote a note saying not to try to make up i really cant see the friends ship being brought back together and it makes me sad to say but i kinda dopnt want to be friends with them after the notes cuz they wrote one saying how they have hated me since grade 3 and we in grade 6 so i nought sure i can forgive them cuz they started spreading romers around so bad some people started taking my stuff and messing it around and kicking my things out side

[Volkoronado]

I expected nothing less from you Mistery, this is kind of the same advice I gave her.
Man, I'm in some deep issues right now. I'm kinda sad, I don't know what's going on, I can't 'feel' anything about myself or others, and I end up hurting people. I don't really care about it either.
Thing is, I'm feeling kinda alone and stuff, and though I party a lot with my friends (which is always very cool and I enjoy it a lot), I just don't feel satisfied and am really confused about what is it really that I'm meant to do with my life.
Just needed to yell it out somewhere, thanks guys.

[Mistery]

@Ratgirl
I'm sorry to hear that - I was hoping that you all could work it out somehow, since you've been friends before.
Hmmm, it's strange if they try to bring others up against you - and that the others behave now so mean to you because of that
Warm to you.
Do you have other friends in that group or class (I don't know who the other people are) who can give you support?


@Volkoronado
I'm sorry to hear that
I think that many people experience such a phase (or several) in their lives. It's tough, and can also be scary. As long as you can still have some fun with your friends, and don't loose interest in everything, it's kind of normal. Perhaps there is someone from your family or friends with whom you can talk about it?
However if it lasts long, and you get really worried about it, it's maybe a good idea to decide to go to a counceling service.
Hugs to you, too

[Volkoronado]

Well it has happened several times before.
However, it's been fine, it IS like a phase...
It's just that everytime it occurs, I just feel really down, and everything just seems so simple, so vain... I don't know.
As long as I don't start hearing voices I know I'll be fine lol
I always start thinking stuff... like the meaning of life, or what am I supposed to do...
I've been talking to my best friend about it, she supports me and always tries to cheer me up, I always help her too. But then again... I don't know.
I'll keep it cool, I guess.. not worth worrying if I ain't loosing control.
Thank you for your words Mistery.

[Ratgirl111]

ya i got a couple of people that arnet in my class buyt school the will suport me thanks for the hug Mistery i do hope my situation doesnt get worse cuz there r still people at school for the group of peoiple to tell anyway night all

[Volkoronado]

Night Ratgirl, hope everything works out fine

[fallen_kitten]

this is a different kind of topic...


i would like to ask some questions... special to boys...

if you really love a girl, would you still mind of her past?
even if she had so many bf before?


and how will you show her that you love her so much

[Volkoronado]

I love these questions.
Well I abide by the saying that goes 'gentlemen have no memory' meaning that when you really love someone, you don't care about the past.
However, nowadays, 'love' itself is different, and so people acts in very inappropiate ways.
If this girl did nothing really bad or that I dislike (that I should really know of), I don't care about the past, all in my mind is that I love her.
How would I show her? Well, I'd invite her to the movies, to dinner, I'd write poems, songs, go to her house even if it was 2 miles away walking (I've done this before), set up a huge banner that said 'I love you' outside her house at 5AM so she'd see it in the morning (done it too), talk to her a lot, know her family, her friends, do stuff that she likes, tell her what I dislike about her, sort out any problems that could arise, etc. I could go on and on forever.
But sadly, not many girls appreciate that nowadays, and thus we get to sit and wait for that ideal girl to show up *sigh*
Anyway, that's what I do, did, or would do.
A toast for the forgotten gentlemen of GH!

[fallen_kitten]

I love these questions.
Well I abide by the saying that goes 'gentlemen have no memory' meaning that when you really love someone, you don't care about the past.
However, nowadays, 'love' itself is different, and so people acts in very inappropiate ways.
If this girl did nothing really bad or that I dislike (that I should really know of), I don't care about the past, all in my mind is that I love her.
How would I show her? Well, I'd invite her to the movies, to dinner, I'd write poems, songs, go to her house even if it was 2 miles away walking (I've done this before), set up a huge banner that said 'I love you' outside her house at 5AM so she'd see it in the morning (done it too), talk to her a lot, know her family, her friends, do stuff that she likes, tell her what I dislike about her, sort out any problems that could arise, etc. I could go on and on forever.
But sadly, not many girls appreciate that nowadays, and thus we get to sit and wait for that ideal girl to show up *sigh*
Anyway, that's what I do, did, or would do.
A toast for the forgotten gentlemen of GH!

awww that is so sweet.. i hope my bf does it to me to...

he is absolutely the opposite...

he would say he dont like my past
he would not take me to a date.. even this coming 6th monthsary (the 6 months rule..)
he would complain of coming here at our place
he comes late about 7 pm, and his curfew in our place is 9
and he would always ask me to treat him...



but i cant let him go.. i love him so much..

all i want for him to do is to show his love for me...

dats all...

but i cant feel it...

maybe sometimes...

when i brag about it!!

[Volkoronado]

Lol that's what I don't understand about girls nowadays.
They always date guys that make them suffer... and they just can't 'let them go'.
Their choice.
Anyway that's one of life's greatest mysteries in my opinion.
One thing is clear kitten: people NEVER changes. (I've got 4 friends who always get boyfriends like this and always end up the same, I just can't understand it, but it's way fun to observe and analyze this sort of situations )

[fallen_kitten]

i sometimes look at this kind of people as kittens...

at first they would look like harmless loving kittens that needs a owner..

and you adopt them...

and you learn to love them...

you feed them, care for them...

but after a while...

they change...

they turn to something you dont expect...

sigh...

they start scratching you, biting you...
and when u dont give much attention... they run away..
when you give too much attention... they also run away..

[humphryboop]

My RP character is currently dating a 17 year old.........
I am 9, but I rp as a 15 year old O.o

[Lilliputt]

I would not let a nine year old date at all, Humphry. Perhaps I am old fashioned