Problems - Need Your Help

[PrincessPeach:)]

Thanks Juli, I appreciate your advice.
I feel a lot better now!


Thanks EscapeGirl

[Julibean]

Anytime, dear.

[EscapeGirl]

I think Julibean has given you great advice, and I think the same thing. I know how confusing things can be at that age. Especially when you do already have a crush on a guy. But one thing I want to add, is never to let anyone make you uncomfortable like that if you don't want to. And if there is anything I have learned, is that all the "decent" guys will respect you for standing up for yourself and saying no, or asking questions (such as about his girlfriend he might have.) But I know this was an especially hard situation for you since you have such a crush on him. I'm behind Julibean's advice for ya. I wish you luck on Monday - and play it cool!

[PrincessPeach:)]

I have another problem, a friend of mine has just threatened to beat me up when I was chatting to her on MSN. It's because about two weeks ago £20 of my money went missing and she was the only person with me in my house that day, so I told someone about it, and she told my friend. And now she says she's going to beat me up, and I don't know what to do. Anyone got any ideas?


Thanks invincible

[invincible]

@princesspeach
here are some ways:
1. tell your parents
2. pretend that you found it and it was under the bed or something (might ease the anger)
3. never eat shreaded wheat!
4. well no one can beat you up so tell the teacher straight away when u get to school (get there early)
5. gets some friends to protect you, just tell them and they will help get rid of your angry friend!

[Julibean]

Let me add:

#6. GET SOME NEW FRIENDS!!!! (Geez!)

[Carmit]

i got this friend she rings me nearly every second she wont leve me alone sshhheesss ssooo anoying like i say i cant have friends over (when i relly can) and she still comes down wanting me to walk her to the shops she wont leve me alone and im to nice to yell at her geee she annoys mee

[Julibean]

I'm sticking to my prior post.

[PrincessPeach:)]

OK, I've got some good news and some bad news about whats happened to me in the past few weeks. First of all the girl that threatened to beat me up has been expelled from school, so she won't be going near me!
The bad news is about the guy that I liked, when I went back into school that Monday, I did see him but he just ignored me, I thought he was just a bit shy after what happened on Friday. But then I asked him to meet me after school the next day, and I knew I would see him because he is in the classroom opposite me. So I waited on him, then I noticed him walking up towards me, he saw me but he just walked past me like I wasn't even there, and he knew he was meant to meet me, he didn't forget or anything. So I think he was just using me and I'm really upset and angry about it. I'm off school now for a month because I'm doing my exams, but the times I do go in to school to do exams I always end up seeing him and it really gets on my nerves because I havn't talked to him since. He's leaving school at the end of this term which is at the end of this month, and I doubt I'll see him again after that, and I want to tell him how he made me feel, I felt humiliated, and I want to do the same to him, I want to get even.
What should I do?


Thanks EscapeGirl, Julibean & Hitman for your advice, and I know what you mean, getting even probably wouldn't work. Lets just hope in this case, what goes around comes around!!

Normally I wouldn't do this, but I think they deserve it, plus noone on this forum would know them, I'm naming and shaming the guy and girl who I thought I could trust: Tom and Chanelle (2 very bad & nasty people!! lol)

[EscapeGirl]

Aww...PrincessPeach. I'm happy to hear that mean girl has been expelled. As far as the guy? I think it's fine if you want to tell him how he made you feel. He needs to know what a jerk he was, and that it is NOT okay. But I wouldn't recommend getting even. That too often blows up in your face. He took advantage of you, and that was just WRONG. But you know what? Karma. It'll come back and bite him sometime. But as for you, I recommend taking the high road, and ignoring him right back. Take it as a lesson learned, and know that you won't ever let another guy make you feel like that again. I hope you recover from your anger and pain soon, dear.

[Julibean]

This is me agreeing with EscapeGirl. It will come back to bite him. About a million years ago, something similar happened to me, and then six months ago I ran into the guy and we was working at McDonald's and was really overweight and smelled funny, and he wasn't even a manager or anything! I loved it!!! Thank the good Lord I was looking hot that day!

As for getting even: don't even bother, he's not worth your time or energy. You are better than that! Go find a cutie who treats you right!

[Hitman]

@PrincessPeach

If you want some boy-advice, I can help you there. I must agree with Escapegirl and Julibean. Just ignore him. Sooner or later, he'll get tired of that and will talk to you. Just play it cool and act uninterested. If he wants to have something with you, he'll talk with you. If he doesen't, that I'm afraid you can't force him. Just get him out of your heart and start looking for someone else...

[Julibean]

Hitman, how old are you? How refreshing for a seventeen-year-old guy to be so honest! Thanks!

[PrincessPeach:)]

Thanks everyone for your advice, and I totaly agree with you Juli, it's not that often now that a guy is so nice and honest, especially in Edinburgh!! lol

[ForeverJoseph]

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