Chit Chat 4

[EscapeGirl]

@Lilli
Which solution

@Escape
Awwww, poor cat I'm so sorry to hear that, you're tired all the time
Well, I've posted the good news that you've already read in Let It Out, otherwise I'm doing okay and I'm gathering energy
Hmmmm, I'm just very frustrated because authorities can be really fast if it's in their favor (as you know they take months if it's not in their favor ):
Today, I've received a letter that the unemployment insurance will pay the contribution of my husband until Monday, and from Tuesday on he will have to look with the authorities responsible for the indemnity for sickness since he's sick and not able to look for a job!
So I should continue to take care of getting my money finally, and also do the paper work etc. for his money

Glad you're gathering that energy.

The authrorities/social services here are the EXACT same way. They really drag their feet on things if it doesn't benefit them. I don't understand why the unemployment insurance won't keep paying while he is unable to look for a job, and why you have to go through the authorities for that instead. Such a shame. Well, I know you'll put up a good fight. As we say here in the States, "Give 'em hell."

@ Mom..Ah. Thank you! *sits comfortably*

Fru-fru? Well, I might be spelling it wrong. But it means all girly, lacy, etc. Just over the top girly.

LOL about the mooh-mooh!

[Lilliputt]

Oh... girly Butaaa... I dunno how ta tell ya this sweetie.. uhm, you ARE a bit girly ya know. I think it can have ta do with you being a girl
Yeah? Ya liked da mooh-mooh, huh? Well this mama is more of a doh-doh !

[Mistery]

Well, the unemployment insurance only pays if you are able to work, if you're not, it's another insurance that SHOULD pay

Since I don't have money for a lawyer - and even after getting my money, it would be enough to live but not to pay for a lawyer - I thought of going to the ombudsman of our city despite the fact that it would probably take a long time until things advance.
Now a friend of us has offered me to come with me to the leader person of the Social Services, I'm trying to make a second appointment there now. This friend is a professor - that means a higher status and an older man (unfortunately this makes still a difference even in our century ) and he said that he'll support me there, and we wouldn't leave the office until I get a written consent (is that the correct word?) with an exact date to get my money... Let's see, I keep up my hope
And for the money for my husband, I'll try to take care of it tomorrow. It's just difficult for me, because it's exactly the same place where I should have got my money since May and they refused, so that I had to go to the Social Services

[Lilliputt]

... I wanna go with you and give my support aswell, dear Mistery ... *Feels useless and helpless* So very unfair ya have ta deal with that in a time like this

[EscapeGirl]

@Mom....I am!?! I had no idea!! Juuuuuuuuuust kidding. I may be a girl, but do I have to be all covered in bows and lace?

Doh-doh!?

@ Mistery....Okay, I see now. *sighs* What a pain in the ASSet. I wish I were in Switzerland, I could have my bosses take your case for free! (They have helped friend's of mine in the past. ) But I know how expensive an attorney can be, and why you wouldn't be able to do it, even if Social Services was giving you the money. I'm so very glad you have that professor friend to help you talk to the "head honcho" of Social Services, and that he is so adament on making sure you get assistance. We have the same problem here as far as being a "woman" when it comes to many things. It's a shame, and I hope eventually that is no longer an issue. I have dealt with that myself, as well. (But I mighta gotten a little feisty with them when they talked down to me, or didn't acknowledge me. Unfortunately that didn't help either...) I truly hope, pray, and cross my paws () that you will be successful on your next trip down there with your professor friend.

[Mistery]

... I wanna go with you and give my support aswell, dear Mistery ... *Feels useless and helpless* So very unfair ya have ta deal with that in a time like this

Thank you dear
Yes, exactly this feeling of helplessness and frustration and fears is what has made it difficult for me to get well fast since May
But as I said I'm doing better despite of all the rocks thrown in my way!!! And I'm gathering my energy now to fight, because I'm not letting crack myself!!! And as soon as the most troubles and worries are over, I can focus on my health, so that all these things will be just bad memories.

@Escape
Yes, this is really a shame! I've had my share of it, too.
But I'm optimistic now, well what else is left
I really hope that the presence of a serious man with a high status (although he can be a looney, too, among friends ) will impress them

[Lilliputt]

Oook... I uh... never did aaaaaaaaanything with bows and laces when you was a baby kitten, not me... uh-uh...

Yes, it's a multiple DOH! disorder

@Mistery
I will stand by you though ANY rocks, dear friend Please let me know whenever you need me and I will be there

[EscapeGirl]

Thank you dear
Yes, exactly this feeling of helplessness and frustration and fears is what has made it difficult for me to get well fast since May
But as I said I'm doing better despite of all the rocks thrown in my way!!! And I'm gathering my energy now to fight, because I'm not letting crack myself!!! And as soon as the most troubles and worries are over, I can focus on my health, so that all these things will be just bad memories.

@Escape
Yes, this is really a shame! I've had my share of it, too.
But I'm optimistic now, well what else is left
I really hope that the presence of a serious man with a high status (although he can be a looney, too, among friends ) will impress them

I'm so glad to hear that strong, fighting attitude and perserverance!! Go get 'em!

Well, let's just hope he keeps his looniness to himself during his time at the Social Services. You can both go out and be loooned after. Hehe. But I am sure it will makea difference to have him there with you. Hurrah!

Oook... I uh... never did aaaaaaaaanything with bows and laces when you was a baby kitten, not me... uh-uh...

Yes, it's a multiple DOH! disorder

@Mistery
I will stand by you though ANY rocks, dear friend Please let me know whenever you need me and I will be there

(My real mom actually DID do lots of bows and laces, and I was in ballet for 9 years. But I loved it all. )

Sure you didn't!! How am I supposed to be respected as BatCat if I can't even look tough?

Multiple DOH! disorder? That's a new one for the DSM IV! Now, what are the symptoms of this disorder?

[Lilliputt]

(My real mom actually DID do lots of bows and laces, and I was in ballet for 9 years. But I loved it all. )

Sure you didn't!! How am I supposed to be respected as BatCat if I can't even look tough?

Multiple DOH! disorder? That's a new one for the DSM IV! Now, what are the symptoms of this disorder?

(I would have done the same with a sweetie like you I think )

Well... how could I know you was gonna grow inta such a hero

The syptoms? Well... I suppose being like me I guess

[Mistery]

Dear friends, I'm pretty full of different emotions right now, and I need to retreat for a bit. And then I want to have some time with the kids before they go to bed.
I should be back later.
Huge to all of you and thanks again for your support

[Lilliputt]

Dear friends, I'm pretty full of different emotions right now, and I need to retreat for a bit. And then I want to have some time with the kids before they go to bed.
I should be back later.
Huge to all of you and thanks again for your support

I loves ya my dear alien and understand that them emotions must be filling up a lot at the moment Also, I think it good to have quality time with your kids.
I hope to see you soon but if not then take these hugs ta go

[EscapeGirl]

@Mom....(hehe. But I loved ballet! )

Well, they can just write that as the symptoms, and confuse docs around the world. "Symptoms are that of being like Lilliputt"

@Mistery....I completely understand. I hope you can relax, and enjoy the time with your kids. Take care my dear, and you always have our support. Talk to you soon.

[Lilliputt]

No, no, no, dear daughter, like this :"the multiple DOH disorder: Lilliputtish mannerism resulting in slapping of da head and expressing the word "DOH!" out loud several times"

[EscapeGirl]

I think your majikyl sister has that disorder, too! I've seen her do that PLENTY of times!

[someguy]

now will somebody play pass the h-bomb with me?