The "Let it out" Thread

[EscapeGirl]

@Heart.....Ugh. That's so sad. We've all been there. Getting our hearts broken in High School. The one thing that got me through it when my first love and I broke up, was my friends. Keeping me busy with my friends, and being able to talk to them, versus keeping things bottled up, helped the most. If your friend still has such serious thoughts, I think it's important they seek help. And if they don't on their own, it might be worth telling their parent/guardian. Or a school counselor. I hope they feel better soon, and can move on and their heart healed. Here's a hug for your friend.

@ Butter....Grr!!! That's just not very fair at all!!!! Well, I don't know what grade you're in...but I know I have also been there before, though it was a long time ago. If these people are your true friends, they'll come back around. Real friendships aren't worth breaking up over such things. Then again, real friends don't say mean/hurtful things to eachother on purpose without apologies. Maybe you could talk to your friends, and tell them that you weren't trying to start drama. It's just you don't think it's cool to say all these mean things. Tell them how you feel, and see where it goes from there. I wish you luck on whatever you decide.

[Elni]

@Iva ~ thank you for your kind words It was a very hard week indeed. I don't know what happend with that girl, the only thing she admitted yesterday was that she had problems with her relationship. So I'm guessing that she why she acted to me like that. The thing now is that we are ok again (and I hope it remains like that)

@Heart~ The only thing I can say is stay as close to your friend as possible. He might not listen to you cause he is upset, but after some time he'll realise that you are there for him. It is hard to stay friends with a person you loved and care, what can I advise him is stay away from that girl nad try to avoid for a while. But if he realy like her try to win her back ( but without freaking her). Tell him to buy one of thos plastic balls that you can squise when you feel angree, and go to a field and scream real laud (screaming helped me a lot). It will be very hard for him for the next months, and probably he will not be at his best behaivour, but be pation my friend and sooner or later he'll be back to normal

@Butter~ I know how you feel dear. Give them one more chance (everyone diserve one), and if you see that they behave the same, talk to them again and then never talk to them again. It is hard to fight with your best friend but is better to stay away than hurt your feelings everyday. I used to have 3 best friends for 7 years and I learned they were talking to others about me, or they stopped talking to me without any explanation. So I clear things out, gave them honts that I know what is going on, and at the end I feel much better that I am not with them. Do what is the best for you hun. First is YOU then anyone else

[crazy mad0]

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[super_T]

My brother is screaming at the top of his lungs, my mom has been yelling at me for no reason whatsoever all day, even when I went outside to help her shovel snow, something I never ever do! And now Im listening to "Roadside" an emo song. This is what a mother should do:

Thing is, she yells at me for no reason alot. I miss it when she actually cared about me.

[Mcakkay]

Oh Super T. Im so sorry to hear that your having a bad day. Im sure your moms just having a bad day too. Shes probably stressed out abit and I dont think she means to take it out on you. Im sure deep down she really apreciated your help so dont feel bad. Just keep helping her out. And she does cares about you. You shouldn't feel like she doesnt. Shes your mother and she loves you!!

[super_T]

But she yells at me all the time. She never yells at my brother. I think she favors him over me.

[Mcakkay]

How old is your brother?

[super_T]

11, and im 12. But I noticed that she's stressed, and whenever she's stressed she takes it out on me and ends up giving me stress. Thanks to her, I'm going to die sooner because she knocked 50 years off my life expectancy! Well, I gtg Its almost time to watch Survivor.

[Mcakkay]

Aww don't say that. Parents always (or in most cases) go harder on the old child because well..they are older. I am an only child so I get all the blame all the time..all the stress and all the lashing out. I usually just let them get it out and then they calm down and I help them do some chores or make dinner etc. and we are fine soon after that.

[Hitman]

My brother is screaming at the top of his lungs, my mom has been yelling at me for no reason whatsoever all day, even when I went outside to help her shovel snow, something I never ever do! And now Im listening to "Roadside" an emo song. This is what a mother should do:

Thing is, she yells at me for no reason alot. I miss it when she actually cared about me.

SuperT, I actually miss that motherish love too. My mother has been changing, I think, or am I the one who's chaning. I'm growing up and so are the responsibilities. But the point is, I understand how you feel. I think you should talk to her. Tell her how you feel. I know it's a little embarrasing but still, she's your mother.

[Mcakkay]

Well said Hitman!

[Mistery]

Awww Jenni, I'm so sorry to hear about this
It must be a shock for the whole family whatever is going on exactly. It's sure a very difficult time for all, but I hope that things will be a bit easier to support as time goes by. I'm not sure if you are able to talk to each other and support each other under the current pressure, or if it would be good to get some kind of more professional help as family at some point next year.
I really hope that the next few weeks bring some relief for everyone.
Huge warm from me dear, keep your courage, and take good care

[jenni.p123]

Thanks for you kind words Mistery, i really appreciate it. I too hope things get better as time goes by, fingers crossed.

[Lilliputt]

I am sorry to hear this Jenny Perhaps in time this storm will pass and you will all find your way back tagether as a family. In the meantime, I am here and I will give what ever support you need, ok? Lotsa huuuuge warm 's

[ShiningStar]

Jenni I really hope everything will out for the better for you and your family! Just know there are a lot of people here in the Gamershood Planet Hoping the best for you and your family and giving their support! hoping things get better ~shining~