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  • There some very wierd stuff going on at my work place. Eventhough me and another girl become a keyholder, some of the staff ignore me and don't tell me when they go to their break or when they leave the store (as all of us need to inform a managment member or a keyholder. A girl (which is an assistant manager) that she liked me and she was very nice to me and have good laughs she is behaiving like I have done something to her. For the past 2 days she doesn't speaking to me and only she speaks when she "orders" something or the manager is near by.
    Yesterday as everyone were doing nothing and I was the only person actualy moving arround and tydding, I saw her the other AM and the other keyholder talking for 30 minutes (maybe more). So I stopped working as well and was talking to the guard. Then the man of the AM turned to me and asked me what we were descussing. The guard told them that I wanted 3 weeks vacations after all this time spending late nights at the library and at work. And they started saying that their life is worst than mine as they are working 50 hours per week with only half an hour break (which 99% lying) have to go back home and take care of the baby all night. Me too I spend 40 hours per week there, and msot of the times I take only 45 minuted or I loose 5 - 10 min from my break cause I am bored. And I told them well at least you are home (plus he and her have someone to prepare them dinner while I have to make mine b4 I go to library).
    Then that girl told me (without looking) is that area tidy? I realy wanted to speak with bad language on her cause ,while she was chit chatting I was running up and down to keep the store clean. Both of them were talking trying to tell me that they have harder life than me, but I work 10 times harder than both of them, and 50 times more than anyone else in there.

    Latter that night I picked up some of the rubbish she made, cause I wanted to help her and she turned to me and with a very hironic face she told me "I can pick my own rubbish you know" And replied " I just wanted to help".
    Today she came to the store, talked and laughing with one of the girls, which we had opened together the store, and she didn't told me good morning, only started giving orders.
    I am sure someone said that I said something bad about her. She can't be nice and laugh to all the others and be rude to me. But she should had talked to me b4 made any conclutions.
    I don't know if it is worth it to work there anymore. I hate been in a place that no one respect me. It is the second time in 3 months I am thinking to leave. If that contenues I have no choice. That makes me upset and I don't like it.
    In their own way they showing me that they don't like someone non-english to be part of their team. The only person that I thing still trust me is the manager, but today (cause he was sick for the past 5 days) his behaiviur was a bit changed as well to me. Probably she talked to him. I realy want to know what happend.
    I don't know what to do and I know that if I asked her what is wrong she'll tell me nothing.
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    • As I see it you seem ta have not much choice but tell the manager how you feel and you are thinking of leaving. If the manager cannot give you satisfying support then you should leave. I am sorry to hear this though and I wish there was something I could do to help. Here is a special warm hug for you, dear friend ---->

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      • @Elni....I'm so sorry to hear about all the backstabbing, and rude, insconsiderate behavior that is gonig on at your job. I know how hard you work between work and your studies. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You don't deserve to be belittled. I can completely understand why you are thinking of leaving. If I were you, I would do just as Lilliputt has said. I would sit down and talk to the manager about your concerns and everything that is going on. You may even need to approach that girl as well, and simply confront the issues. If things can't be resolved, it may be time to look for a new job. No need in staying in one where you are so unhappy and treated so poorly. Lots of hugs and support for whatever you decide, my dear.

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        • My sister left home not long ago, the reality of it hasn't kicked in yet, but I'm sure it will soon.
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          • @Elni
            I'm very sorry to hear what you experience at your workplace
            From what you describe, there seem to be things going on behind your back. Before you seriously think about leaving, I would also suggest you to try to clear up what has happened. Try to talk to the girl and ask her why her behavior towards you has changed. And you may also consider to talk to the manager.
            Maybe things can be cleared up, and it turns out that there was some misunderstanding. If things don't get better, and you still experience mobbing, you might consider to look for another job.
            I know how difficult it is for somebody from another country to get accepted, I've experienced it myself, and it can be very tough.
            I hope that there will be a solution very soon - in either way (staying or leaving). Huge warm from me, and I'll keep you in my thoughts


            @Ropub
            Yes, you may miss your sister soon, but you will have opportunities to see her, won't you? Has she moved very far away?

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            • elni - the only thing i can suggest is to try to get her on her good side, possibly bring her some flowers and say sorry for whatever you did (you dont have to mean it if your really not sorry and if you really didnt do anything) and she will lighten up... i mean everyone has a good side just bring it out in her =]

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              • Lilli,Escape, Mistery and Heart thank you so much for you kind words I'll see what happens tommorow, she is working as well. If things are the same I'm gonna tolk to her and see what happens.
                And Heart I was always on her good side. She always said I was a super star on what I was doing. Something must happend to change her oppinion just like that. About the flowers believe me it will not work. Every time I was saying something good (especialy at a management member) they always asking me what I am trying to achieve? (and then they were laughing) I was always nice and polite to everyone and I had no need,and never want to be asset kisser. I also tried to make her laugh but she wouldn't accept my trying, she only laughed when someone else said something funny.
                Thanks again for your support. I just have to wait until tommorow
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                • Originally posted by Mistery View Post
                  @Elni
                  I'm very sorry to hear what you experience at your workplace
                  From what you describe, there seem to be things going on behind your back. Before you seriously think about leaving, I would also suggest you to try to clear up what has happened. Try to talk to the girl and ask her why her behavior towards you has changed. And you may also consider to talk to the manager.
                  Maybe things can be cleared up, and it turns out that there was some misunderstanding. If things don't get better, and you still experience mobbing, you might consider to look for another job.
                  I know how difficult it is for somebody from another country to get accepted, I've experienced it myself, and it can be very tough.
                  I hope that there will be a solution very soon - in either way (staying or leaving). Huge warm from me, and I'll keep you in my thoughts


                  @Ropub
                  Yes, you may miss your sister soon, but you will have opportunities to see her, won't you? Has she moved very far away?
                  No only about 20 miles
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                  • well it couldn't have been avoided and it wasn't like it was un expectied but i hope you see her often and write that is the one thing that is very important, write about anything at all to make it not fell so well weird.
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                    If everyone is diffrent wouldn't that mean everyone is the same but if we are all diffrent then how can we be the same?

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                    • @Elni
                      Seems Escape is not the only one with monkey bosses And you have meany colleagues too I really hope the talk you had cleared things up and you don't have to leave your job!
                      I really admire you for being able to work as much as you do AND study, so don't let anyone tell you that you are lazy! A big hug to you

                      @Ropub
                      Are you the only one left with your parents now? I know how that feels, I was 11 years old when we moved to a new city, my eldest sister had already left the house and my youngest sister (still 7,5 years older than me) stayed behind... It's weird to be the only one left at your parents house, but you'll get used to it and maybe it will even have it's positive sides And like Mistery says, you can visit her, especialy if she lives so close by!




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                      • @Iva I'm not the only one left, I still have my other sister. We were supposed to go to Sal today but because of the price of petrol, we decided not to go.
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                        • well that really blows but why don't you hang out and watch a funny movie like "my cousin vinny" or "the full monty" and "the bird cage"?
                          "When I die, I want to go peacefully like my Grandfather did, in his sleep -- not screaming, like the passengers in his car"

                          Everytime someone angers me I go down to the panama canal and dig a lock.

                          If everyone is diffrent wouldn't that mean everyone is the same but if we are all diffrent then how can we be the same?

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                          • my friends heart is broken or in the process of breaking because of this girl that he likes and he came to me for advice...

                            apparently he was just like his other friends untill this girl came along and she changed him... now shes scared and doesnt know what to do about him and her and it really made my friend depressed... he doesnt sleep at night and is thinking about her... he said the only thing i regret is getting "close" to her
                            he even had thoughts of hurting himself

                            ive told him that its not worth it to hurt yourself and you should always value friendship over relationship so if it comes down to that just be her friend but then he said "im afraid that if im her friend and i see her with someone ill do something" but i just said again value friendship over relationship, and its not worth it to hurt yourself or others over a girl because highschool relationships never last and when this is all over you will grow up and realize that it was a tough situation but when you get over such problems all they do is make you stronger

                            its a tough predicament and i dont know what else i should say to him

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                            • there is not much more you can say but show your encouragement towords him in subtle ways and try to keep his mind off the girl because face it this shi* happens and it's tough to deal with I know but you have to help him through it so you can get him back to normal and if all else fails and he gets worse keep him away from dangerous items and seek professional help and as much as all of us like to think a fourm is not in fact professional help. Keep on truckin' just like the dooda man, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPNgjA4i6gM
                              "When I die, I want to go peacefully like my Grandfather did, in his sleep -- not screaming, like the passengers in his car"

                              Everytime someone angers me I go down to the panama canal and dig a lock.

                              If everyone is diffrent wouldn't that mean everyone is the same but if we are all diffrent then how can we be the same?

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                              • well.
                                My supposed best friends have now started this new thing were go around and put down everyone and just are really really mean. And they do it to me alot. And I today i was just fed up at it and blew up at them. And they were just whispering to eachother and i walked away. But she walked up to me and was like "for someone who hates drama, you sure do start it alot"
                                And all i wanted was an apologie but their too stubborn to do that.
                                And now they are making this whole dramatic thing
                                "i want to switch schools!!"
                                zomg.
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