The "Let it out" Thread

[cf2062]

they don't think he's gonna make it through tomarrow/today

[Crimsonthread]

That's so hard, hon. I know it's frustrating knowing you can't do anything and you can't get there before it's too late. I lost my grandfather on Thanksgiving Day about 15 years ago... no one saw it coming. It's especially difficult this time of year. The only advice I have is to cling to your family--they're the best support system a person could have, especially during this time, because they're going through the same things.

[cf2062]

Thank you . I just hope the next time I see him it won't be to late for me to say anything. I hope he can wait to sleep with the stars.

[Chocbubbles]

awww, that's really sad cf

my grandma died about 4 years ago. she had breast cancer and then it spread to her bones. i remember my grandpa calling us up and saying that she didn't have long, my dad went down south to be with her a day later. and it was the day after my mum's b'day that she passed away. it was close to christmas and it was a couple of days into summer holidays i remember crying at the table with my sis and mum for hours.

i hope u get to talk to ur grandad at least, just try to stay close to all ur family. they're definitely the best comfort at a time like this. lots of big for you

[Mistery]

I'm very sorry to hear that cf
It's very hard to lose someone from your family. I hope that your family sticks together through this difficult time, and you can support each other


My grandfather passed away yesterday. Unfortunately I didn't have the opportunity to see him, because he lived in another country. I sent encouraging messages and good news through my aunt who visited him on Wednesday in hospital. He was very happy to hear the good news from us, and this gave him a bit of comfort. On Friday my mom could visit him, too, but then he was already in a very bad condition. However, I'm very happy that my mom and he could say goodbye to each other, this was for both of them very important. Though it's very hard to lose him, I think in the situation it was the best: he got some good news which made him happy, and then was able to see his daughter one last time. Then he fell quietly asleep.
I miss you grandpa

[EscapeGirl]

Awwwwww. I'm sorry to hear this, Mistery. I knew he wasn't doing well. But you're right, if he had to leave, that's one of the better ways to go. It's wonderful he had such a loving family, near and far. And I can tell he would have known how much you care.

This is eerie. One of my best friends I've known since we were 14, lost his grandfather on Tuesday. He's in the area for the funeral and all, and I will seem him tomorrow.

To all of you. I hope the memories and your friends and families can help you through this very tough times.

[Lilliputt]

Oh, Mistery I am so sorry for your loss. It's tough when a loved one passes away. You are in my thoughts

@Escape
Special hug for you in order ta give you some strength before meeting your friend

[Crimsonthread]

Damn. I hate that so many people around here are losing loved ones... but it's comforting to know that there are people are dealing with similar situations so we can commiserate and sympathize with each other.

As far as my grandmother... it's been two weeks since she fell and one week since my dad and his brother and sister moved her to a nursing home. There's a chance she has cancer, and she could go today or might make it another year or two. The doctors don't think she has very long... and she wants to die. I'm hoping that she'll hold on until Thanksgiving so I and the rest of my family can see her.

@Mistery--I'm so sorry, dear. My thoughts are with you and your family.

[Mistery]

Thank you all very much

Escape, I wish you much strength to support your friend after this sad loss

Crimson, I'm sorry to hear that your grandma isn't doing well I hope that when she will be ready to go, she will fall asleep and won't suffer. Huge warm

[Elni]

CF your grandpa knows that you are there. He know that you care and he loves you. He will always be there with yu, no matter what had happens, I know from personal expirience My grandpa died after 5 years of cancer (doctors couldn't believe he lasted so long), and the last 3 years I lost 2 more family members. I see often my grandfather in my dreams, that he comes for a visit for xmas, or to eat with us and even I know that he will go soon and never seen him again. Most of the time I was affraid to speak to him, but the last time I saw him I hugged him and he was happy. From that time I know that when people we love die they are always protect as, and advice us. Hunny your family, friends and online friends will always be there for you.

Mistery, Escape, my deepest sympathies. I hope you soon fine your strength to find your smile.
Death is my worst fear, I don't like loosing my fav persons that I grow with. To everyone that had lost a person very close to them (or not) I give them a big and I wish they will smile again, sooner or later

[ShiningStar]

It seems everyone is having some kind of Family problems

Mistery: Sorry to hear about that! I hope that you and your family will be able to work through it!

Escape: Sorry to hear About your friends Grandfather! I give them plenty of hope for them in this hard time!

Crimson: sorry to heard about your Grandmother! I hope the best for you guys!

Huge hugs to you guys!!!

[cf2062]

I'm very sorry to hear that cf
It's very hard to lose someone from your family. I hope that your family sticks together through this difficult time, and you can support each other


My grandfather passed away yesterday. Unfortunately I didn't have the opportunity to see him, because he lived in another country. I sent encouraging messages and good news through my aunt who visited him on Wednesday in hospital. He was very happy to hear the good news from us, and this gave him a bit of comfort. On Friday my mom could visit him, too, but then he was already in a very bad condition. However, I'm very happy that my mom and he could say goodbye to each other, this was for both of them very important. Though it's very hard to lose him, I think in the situation it was the best: he got some good news which made him happy, and then was able to see his daughter one last time. Then he fell quietly asleep.
I miss you grandpa

mine died last night/ this mornin. i was going to bed when we got the call we saw him on sat. but had to come home (dad's work) they took him off everything. i have to miss the first basket ball game(im the manager) to go to the wake. funeral is on wed. we went to find outfits today.

[Mistery]

I'm very sorry to hear that cf But since he was probably not doing good, maybe it was the best for him to go
Huge warm hugs to you and a lot of strength to your family


@ Elni & Shining
Thank you so much

[cf2062]

thankyou mistery you a great friend.

[Elni]

CF I am so sorry. It is hard to learn in sudden the death of your grandpa. Sweety the only thing I can offer at this time is a MY thought are with you my friend.