Problems - Need Your Help

[ShiningStar]

Julibean Thats wonderful!!!!!! I so happy for you!!!

[Julibean]

Thank you, Escapegirl and shiningstar!!!! Shall we do the happy-dance?

[EscapeGirl]

*begins to dance* YAY! It's such good news!

[jenni.p123]

Omg! That's sooooooo GREAT!

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[Mistery]

Awww, I'm very happy for you Juli!!!

*Does her happy alien dance*

[Julibean]

This would really rock if we had music!

[Hugo_Smith]

I'm so happy for you Juli!

Cue happy music here

[Julibean]

Thanks for the music, Hugo, lol. I keep hearing the theme to Austin Powers in my head while we dance, though.

[RBS]

http://www.jamglue.com/tracks/104048 Here's your dance music...

[hit the big yellow play button]

[Julibean]

WOO HOO!!! Ya'll are spoiling me (I love it!)

Let's play it again!!!

heeheehee...ONE MORE TIME!!!

[Elni]

Juli I am so happy for you Now you can be more relaxed than ever. Keep dancing dear, you disserve it

[Julibean]

Hey, Elni! Thanks so much!

[PrincessPeach:)]

Hi Juli, that's great news!
I have a bit of a problem and I'm quite confused about it,there is this boy that I like, a lot. We have known each other for about a year now, and I've always fancied him, and a "friend" of mine told the whole school about it, the next day everyone was asking me if I was going out with him, it was very embarrassing. Then the guy I liked found out and asked me if it was true, I lied because we were quite good friends and I didnt want to ruin that by making things uncomfortable.(This all happened last year).But today I asked him if he wanted to come up to my house, because its Friday we get out of school at 12:00pm. Everything was fine untill I asked if he wanted to watch a movie, after a while I noticed he was moving closer and closer to me on the couch.And it just felt strange because I thought he didnt like me (well, not in THAT way) plus whenever I asked him if he liked me he always denied it. Anyway,he was moving closer to me, then put his arm around me, then (even though its embarrassing saying this!) he started feeling me up! And, even though I was kind of ok with it I did feel really uncomfortable, plus I remember him saying something about him having a girlfriend but I didnt know if he was still with her, I didnt think of asking at the time. I feel pretty guilty now and I'm not sure what to do because I'm going to see him again at school on Monday! HELP!!!



Thanks for the advice invincible!

[invincible]

@princesspeach i dont know much about love but this is what my cousin did. When he loved a girl but didnt know what to do he invited her to the cinema and gave her a gift. then the girl started getting gifts for my cousin and then they got closer and closer but it only works sometimes!
maybe he loves you but he is to scared to admit it. if no one posts then ask your parents because when they loved eachother, something similar might have happened so they should know

[Julibean]

PrincessPeach,

Well, I have to go back aways to when I was 15, but here's what I think.

All boys at that age are stupid. They don't really think about the big picture, it's all about the "now". So, when you were at the movies, he remembered the rumor that you liked him, and thought "let's see where this can go..." It doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't like you too, but they don't think like we do.

What I would do on Monday... act like nothing happened. Play it cool. Don't treat him any differently than you normally would. Basically, make him come to you. If he wants to start a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship and you do too, then fine. If he doesn't, and still wants to be "just friends", try not to be too hurt by that, but I wouldn't let him touch you like that again. Boys take a long time to grow up, (sometimes they hit about 65 or 66 before they start acting like adults). And it's true that at that age, they have only one thing on their minds. But, you've got to be the one to make a choice, here, because he'll just string you along until you tell him to stop.

Good luck!