The "Let it out" Thread

[Dark Halo]

Dude i truly feel sorry for you steelers, this song kinda synchs up with your explanation.Listen to the words, but if ur wishing to date her again, wish you luck! (i say this cuz in one part it says "you will be alone with all your secrets and regrets" referring to her)http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Md4cz7i3Ij8

I've been in your position.
It sucks when people you think are you friends go and stab you in the back like that. It sucks. This world is full of heartless people like that.
but this girl will eventualy break up with him. After that, make a move. If she declines you, it's allright. some girls are evil like that. I'm sure you can find someone better than her if she wants to do that.

[EscapeGirl]

Aw...Steelersfreak. I'm really sorry. That's just awful what you've been through, and I know you can't stop yourself from liking this girl. All that I can say is that it sounds to me that you took the high road and didn't want to betray your friend. I think that's a very decent thing to do. I believe that the good guys will win the best girls in the end. I have no idea how old you are, but I can tell you that girls "kiss a lot of toads" (so to speak) before they realize the good guys that are out there. I don't know why we girls do such things. Not thinking? I dunno. But I do hope this girl realizes that you two seem to click so well (being you have been through so much relationship/friendship wise in the past), that maybe giving you another shot as her boyfriend, might be worth a shot. If it works, great! And if it doesn't, at least you both know you've tried. I hope that whatever happens, you can find happiness. As for your friend who started dating her when he knew you liked her? I think that's low. I'm sorry. I know I don't know him, but that's just downright mean. Friends shouldn't do that to each other. Good luck for whatever happens in the future. You WILL find a good girl - her or another - and be happy.

[SteelersFreak]

well i really do just want to let this out.

So there was this girl that i started liking a few years back and she liked me back. The first time we planned any kind of date we decided to go to a movie. She completely blew me off which made me feel like maybe she didnt like me (maybe just me being insecure). So after a while we patched things up and we ended up dating each other. So that didnt work out either (she dumped me ). So the next year we start becoming really good friends again and i she seemed to like me a lot and thats what i was told by her close friends but then she ended up dating a good friend of mine who i told repetitively that i liked this girl. I felt completely betrayed by my friend and this girl. Even though she hurt me like that i was persistent and couldnt stop liking her. After a while they broke up and she was single again. She was off and on with a few guys for while which really made me realize what a trashy *********************** she was. Even though i knew this i keep myself away from her. So my friend likes her again too and tells me he is going to ask her out during the upcoming weekend on Sunday. So i go to a party Saturday night where she is and he isnt. I find out that she really really likes me and wants to go out with me which really pleased me. Unfortunately i was told this on sunday... I get to school the next day and ask another close friend of mine if i should ask the girl out only to find out that my one friend and her are going out. I realized what a HUUUUUGGGE mistake i made by not asking her out. So then about a year later again i go to some fundraiser in the morning and head back to a different friend's house. so the girl starts flirting with me non-stop and i could have easily made a move and ended up goin out with her. But instead i let her flirt so i woudnt betray my friend who had already betrayed me. She ended up breaking up with the guy. Now she refuses to give me a chance and i cant stand it. I cant stop thinking about the fact that if i had not been such a good friend i could be going out with the girl i have dreamed about dating for 2 years. SO i feel like i was too much of a good friend and i should have just taken action. This guy that she dated did everything he could to rub it in my face. I hated him so much that i actually had daydreams of killing him right in front of her. I know its really really really messed up. I dont mean to be a maurder i just had to get it off my chest.

[Ryuzaki]

........jones i feel so bad for you i mean knowing that must suck but if you need help just remember that GH is here for you and garenteed that someone will care for you.

[ShiningStar]

Simply: i'm so sorry to hear about your family, I really hope that things will get better for you! Just try to not look at the bad things that have happen to you in the past and try to look at the good things. Try to keep looking forward and to not let people bring you down! Just try to work things out with your family, even if that doesn't mean including your father, Things will work out in the end for you, and just remember that there are a lot of people here that you can talk to that care!


Jones: i'm so sorry for what your going through! I just hope that in the end things work out better for you!

Funja-
When I decided to listen to the whole song you gave me, even though it was eminem,
I cried.
I cried a lot. It feels like a huge weight has been lifted off of me. I guess that's all I really needed. I feel much better, and happier, now.
Thanks funja. To me, you are a true friend. And I respect that.

[Elni]

@Simply
I am so sorry theway you've been treated. I can't say that I understand the way you feel, cause I come from a family that supports me whatever I do. We have the ups and downs but 98% are ups. I only heard about those kind of behaviour that happened to you. If you feel you want to scream, do it. If you feel you want to break thing do it as well (at least that makes me feel better). You don't deserve that kind of behaviour. A man that doesnot respect his own children doesnot deserve to be loved. I know it is harsh but I don't like people where they love things more than their own family.

My dearest Simply The only advice I can say is try to forget the past. Try to forget whatever happened in that house. Start your life from 0 and whenever the memories come back, put the headphones and listen to music really laud. It chace the pain away for a while. I really wich I could do more. The only thing I can promise to you (as well to everyone else of my friends in here) whenever you come to Greece I promise a heck of great holidays For the time been is the only that I can offer

@Jones

I am SO sorry of what you are going through . I know the feeling, I know the pain. There are no words that can make you feel better, and I wish I could make you feel better. We are all here for any help we can give. You know that your friends in here are never going to leave you alone

[jenni.p123]

Omg! I'm so sorry someguy, funja, Crazy and Jones I hate that people, good people, my friends, have to suffer and go through pain. I know I may not have met you in real life but I still care about you all, as does everyone else. I hope you all feel better really soon. . HUUUUUUUUGE 's

[EscapeGirl]

@All...I really, really hope things get better and look up for all of you. I'm more aware of some members' problems than others, but I hope each one of you have someone with whom you can talk and share your thoughts and feelings. Getting things off your chest and out in the open can be very therapeutic. But just know GH is a place full of caring and fun people who love to laugh and have fun - which can sometimes be one of the best distractions from all our problems of the real world - especially those problems we can't change. It's also full of caring, kind and understanding people -many who are willing to lend a shoulder. I hope all of you are able to find some friendships, peace, and fun here. Big hugs to all of you. I know what it's like to be dealing with many (not all) of those things and with so many problems. And it's tough. And I really agree with Crimson's advice as well.

For all of you who need one: Chin up.

[Jones]

Thanks. Most of my beatings are physical, but I get those painful mental beatings too.

[Crimsonthread]

(So much for going to bed... I keep getting caught up in workish stuff)

Oh, Jones... I'm so sorry (and shocked! ) to hear that! There's not a whole lot one can say in this situation, but I have plenty of s if you need them. I completely respect your wish to keep the details private, but feel free to PM me if you need to talk about anything.

[Jones]

I have a terminal disease...I can tell you that it ain't cancer, but it's really bad. And no, I'm not going to say what it is. I've always wondered why I had to get stuck with it...and I had NO control over it; It just HAPPENED! (by 'it just happend' I mean that it was spontaneous)

[SimplyCrazy]

You're probably right... Thanks for listening

[Crimsonthread]

I don't have time for a long comment, dear--I've got to get up really early tomorrow--but the fact that you feel uncomfortable talking with your mom and are just realizing it is another reason to suggest family counsiling. It may do more for your relationship with her than counsiling alone did for you. Family is very important--even more so than friends--because deep down, there's a stronger connection. I think it's important to salvage whatever relationships you can (that is, with your mom and brother), and try to move on without your father. This is only my opinion, but give it some thought.