The "Let it out" Thread

[Mistery]

My condolence for this tragical event, I'm very sorry to hear that. And I can imagine how bad your friend feels right now.

As Crimson and jack have already mentioned, in such cases words often cannot help, or even make it worse. We tend to try to make our friends who are suffering to feel better, and cheer them up, but this is not what they need. It is very important to be there, to listen, to hug, to hold hands and cry together etc. - just what you both feel like. This often helps much more than words.

And I also tend to say that in this case a professional counseling might be a good idea - but don't put pressure on your friend with this either.
And hopefully there are also other persons apart from you who care, and who will listen and be there.

[EscapeGirl]

OMG, Swim Girl....I'm so VERY, VERY sorry to hear of this. My condolences go out to you, your best friend, the boy and his family. I have very little to add to what Crimson, Jack, and Mistery have posted, as they have all given really great advice. Being there for her, and listening and hugging, etc, is very important right now. I really hope that you two can find strength in eachother and your families during this time. I so wish I could help you all, but for now, I'm only a PM away if you need someone to listen or to talk to. I'm here for you.

[Swim Girl]

the sad thing is, is that the one who committed suicide really doesnt have a family. his mom did the same in september and is father is in jail and his lil brother (i think) is living with their step-mom who doesnt really want them...

[gh1]

sorry to hear that SwimGirl,

i'd be cautious of your friends needs and be there like anyone would do. I don't think there's much someone can do in these situations as it will affect different people in a different way.

[Mistery]

That sounds like a really sad and tragical family history

[humphryboop]

awww sorry!

[Ryuzaki]

.....well damn....not to be rude but i mean that's just terrible and sad as anything......i',m sorry but i can't help but just don't go off the emotional deep end plz!

[Elni]

@suzy
My dear pirate cat, I'm sorry to hear you had a bad day. Felling in public is noting to worry about. The only thing you need to worry is your hand (i wish it feels much better).
You mother might had some job problems and she nagged at you. It is a moment thing that everyone will forget sooner than you think


@Swim girl.

I am very sorry of what happened to your best friend. The only think I can add to what all the others said is in order to take her mind off, is buy doing things. For example, ask her to help you with a project, or that you need her help to buy an outfit (even though you don't need it). Just to go stores, try clothes on, and then tell her you thing about it. A nice meal is always follows after a shopping therapy day and many other things you can do together.
I realy hope she will feel better soon

[gh1]

my apologies

[Elni]

I know my problem is not that serious, but I had a call yesterday for the new job position. Unfortunately I didn't get it. It was expected I guess. The other guy had 2 years more experience than me in the same company.
it was 50%-50% chance. I am a bit disappointed though. I hate when they say it was a hard choice. I believe it was an obvious choice, but ...whatever. Know I'm stuck with my ASSet assistant manager until the day I find another job

[Hugo_Smith]

I'm so sorry SwimGirl .
There isn't really anything I know that would cheer somebody up, but all the same, my condolences.

[Mistery]

I know my problem is not that serious, but I had a call yesterday for the new job position. Unfortunately I didn't get it. It was expected I guess. The other guy had 2 years more experience than me in the same company.
it was 50%-50% chance. I am a bit disappointed though. I hate when they say it was a hard choice. I believe it was an obvious choice, but ...whatever. Know I'm stuck with my ASSet assistant manager until the day I find another job

Awww, sorry to hear that
I know how you feel, I had a very similar experience 2 years ago. It is very disappointing and frustrating.
I wish you a lot of luck to find a new job , huge

[Elni]

Thanks Mistery I have to be patient until September

[gabe863]

auteria

NEVER EVER play auteria, i got on, said *** got sileced, then thought i was hacked on game, cause i couldnt get on my user cause it said i was already logged on, so i made another user to ask for help, and when i talked it said i was on other user, but the character and stats looked different, so a mod named d******* <<Deleted by moderation, watch your language>> told me to stop fooling around, so i logged and to my surprize i could get on my other user, but when i got on d****** <<Deleted by moderation, watch your language>> said i was hacking and he banned me o_0 (I wasnt hacking) so later i made another user and d******* asked if i was here to play game or if he had to bann me, then i got on later, and s** ( one of the twocreators of game) didnt believe i wasnt hacking, and she obvisouly hated me, so i said "im going to say this nicely S**, if your not gong to believe i wasnt hacking, please stop talking to me until you trust me" but i was talking in general, so she said "If you dont want to PM me then good bye" THEN SHE BANNED MY FREAKING IP ADDRESS!!! <<Deleted by moderation, watch your language>>

[RC-10M]

im sorry about that man, im mad too n i want to go to this, noob day thing it's for airsoft, i had spent so much money on airsoft stuff over $199 and i can't go case it's $100 in gas i just feel like crying just sitting down and crying... and i dont break down easy